Sunday, February 10, 2013

The Story of Tank

I found this picture and story on Facebook and I wanted to share it here on the blog. It truly touched my heart, and still brings tears to my eyes. 



"They told me the big black Lab’s name was Reggie, as I looked at him lying in his pen. The shelter was clean, no-kill, and the people really friendly. I’d only been in the area for six months, but everywhere I went in the small college town, people were welcoming and open. Everyone waves when you pass them on the street.

But something was still missing as I

attempted to settle in to my new life here, and I thought a dog couldn’t hurt. Give me someone to talk to. And I had just seen Reggie’s advertisement on the local news. The shelter said they had received numerous calls right after, but they said the people who had come down to see him just didn’t look like “Lab people,” whatever that meant. They must’ve thought I did.

But at first, I thought the shelter had misjudged me in giving me Reggie and his things, which consisted of a dog pad, bag of toys almost all of which were brand new tennis balls, his dishes and a sealed letter from his previous owner.

See, Reggie and I didn’t really hit it off when we got home. We struggled for two weeks (which is how long the shelter told me to give him to adjust to his new home). Maybe it was the fact that I was trying to adjust, too.
Maybe we were too much alike.

I saw the sealed envelope. I had completely forgotten about that. “Okay, Reggie,” I said out loud, “let’s see if your previous owner has any advice.”
____________ _________ _________ _________

To Whomever Gets My Dog:

Well, I can’t say that I’m happy you’re reading this, a letter I told the shelter could only be opened by Reggie’s new owner. I’m not even happy writing it. He knew something was different.

So let me tell you about my Lab in the hopes that it will help you bond with him and he with you.

First, he loves tennis balls. The more the merrier. Sometimes I think he’s part squirrel, the way he hoards them. He usually always has two in his mouth, and he tries to get a third in there. Hasn’t done it yet. Doesn’t
matter where you throw them, he’ll bound after them, so be careful. Don’t do it by any roads.

Next, commands. Reggie knows the obvious ones —-“sit,” “stay,” “come,” “heel.”

He knows hand signals, too: He knows “ball” and “food” and “bone” and “treat” like nobody’s business.

Feeding schedule: twice a day, regular store-bought stuff; the shelter has the brand.

He’s up on his shots. Be forewarned: Reggie hates the vet. Good luck getting him in the car. I don’t know how he knows when it’s time to go to the vet, but he knows.

Finally, give him some time. It’s only been Reggie and me for his whole life. He’s gone everywhere with me, so please include him on your daily car rides if you can. He sits well in the backseat, and he doesn’t bark or complain. He just loves to be around people, and me most especially.

And that’s why I need to share one more bit of info with you…His name’s not Reggie. He’s a smart dog, he’ll get used to it and will respond to it, of that I have no doubt. But I just couldn’t bear to give them his real name. But if someone is reading this … well it means that his new owner should know his real name. His real name is “Tank.” Because, that is what I drive.

I told the shelter that they couldn’t make “Reggie” available for adoption until they received word from my company commander. You see, my parents are gone, I have no siblings, no one I could’ve left Tank with .. and it was my only real request of the Army upon my deployment to Iraq, that they make one phone call to the shelter … in the “event” … to tell them that Tank could be put up for adoption. Luckily, my CO is a dog-guy, too, and he knew where my platoon was headed. He said he’d do it personally. And if you’re reading this, then he made good on his word.

Tank has been my family for the last six years, almost as long as the Army has been my family. And now I hope and pray that you make him part of your family, too, and that he will adjust and come to love you the same way he
loved me.

If I have to give up Tank to keep those terrible people from coming to the US I am glad to have done so. He is my example of service and of love. I hope I honored him by my service to my country and comrades.

All right, that’s enough. I deploy this evening and have to drop this letter off at the shelter. Maybe I’ll peek in on him and see if he finally got that third tennis ball in his mouth.

Good luck with Tank. Give him a good home, and give him an extra kiss goodnight - every night - from me.

Thank you,

Paul Mallory
____________ _________ _________ _______

I folded the letter and slipped it back in the envelope. Sure, I had heard of Paul Mallory, everyone in town knew him, even new people like me. Local kid, killed in Iraq a few months ago and posthumously earning the Silver
Star when he gave his life to save three buddies. Flags had been at half-mast all summer.

I leaned forward in my chair and rested my elbows on my knees, staring at the dog.

“Hey, Tank,” I said quietly.

The dog’s head whipped up, his ears cocked and his eyes bright.

“C’mere boy.”

He was instantly on his feet, his nails clicking on the hardwood floor. He sat in front of me, his head tilted, searching for the name he hadn’t heard in months. “Tank,” I whispered.

His tail swished.

I kept whispering his name, over and over, and each time, his ears lowered, his eyes softened, and his posture relaxed as a wave of contentment just seemed to flood him. I stroked his ears, rubbed his shoulders, buried my
face into his scruff and hugged him.

“It’s me now, Tank, just you and me. Your old pal gave you to me.” Tank reached up and licked my cheek.

“So whatdaya say we play some ball?” His ears perked again.

“Yeah? Ball? You like that? Ball?”


Tank tore from my hands and disappeared into the next room. And when he came back, he had three tennis balls in his mouth."


Tuesday, August 7, 2012

Bye Maxfund!




After moving into our new house, Dominic and I decided that we really wanted to get a companion for our beagle, Señor Ding-Dong. I volunteer at both Maxfund No-Kill Animal Shelter in Denver and at Best Friends Animal Society in Kanab, Utah. We really wanted to adopt locally.

I originally fell in love with a dog at Maxfund while volunteering named Astro. He was such a sweet baby, so I asked Dominic if he would be interested in meeting him.

We went to Maxfund that Saturday, and asked to walk Astro. I didn’t bring my volunteer badge and the staff never really seemed to remember me, but they happily got Astro from the back for us to walk him. I asked what his adoption status was, and they said that there were “three adoption applications” already submitted for him. They were certain they would find a great match out of the three.

Shucks.

We were happy for Astro and enjoyed a walk with him through the Sunken Gardens Park.

I never stopped thinking about the little guy; he really was perfect. A few weeks later, while once again considering a new brother for Señor Ding-Dong, I started browsing the Maxfund website—and there was Astro. I was shocked. He should have been adopted. I was certain they were merely behind on updating the website, but to be sure I called to see what the status was on Astro.

“He was just returned to Maxfund today,” the woman at Maxfund said over the phone. Apparently he snapped at someone while camping and the man that adopted him decided that he no longer wanted Astro.

I couldn’t believe it. 

I had visited with Astro several times, and he really was perfect. He had a mellow temperament. He didn’t bark at other dogs or show any aggression to anyone or anything. He walked gently on the leash, always looking back to ensure he was walking at the right speed. I even rolled around on the grass with him, hugged him, and gave him lots of kisses. I just didn’t believe the man’s story, and either did Maxfund.   

I was still interested in adopting the precious Australian shepherd mix. “Can I put in an adoption application for him?” I asked.
“He has to be put on a ten day medical hold before he will be available for adoption again, but after the hold you can submit an adoption application for him,” the woman said.

I waited a few days, but I couldn’t stop thinking about him. I am also a foster parent at Maxfund, so I called the foster coordinator, Brad. I thought maybe I could foster him until the ten days was up, and then we could really get to know the little guy, and already have a foot in the door for adopting.

Because they were certain he would be adopted right away, Brad said that he just wasn’t the type of dog that they place in foster homes. I understood. I told Brad that I was really interested in adopting him, hoping that he could help me out a bit.

At Best Friends Animal Society, volunteers can do doggie sleepovers. I asked Brad if it would be possible to do a sleepover with Astro so that we could see how he gets along with Ding-Dong, and to ensure that he really was perfect. Brad said I would have to come in and talk to the vet tech. I asked if I could talk to her over the phone, and he said she was a bit “temperamental” (he might of said “moody,” but still this was the vet tech! I couldn’t believe it. She is paid, I dedicate my free time to volunteer at Maxfund, and she was “moody.”); He said I would have to talk to her in person.

I let Brad know that I really wanted to adopt Astro, and he simply repeated what the other woman said, “you have to wait until the medical hold was over.” But, he said that once the vet saw Astro, I could submit my adoption application. Excellent. Brad said that Astro would be seeing the vet either that afternoon or the next day. Yippee!

I called the next afternoon to see if the vet had seen Astro yet. I was on my lunch break at school and was ready to rush over to Maxfund to fill out an application. When I called I asked for Brad, but the woman who answered the phone said he was busy and asked if I would like to leave a message. I explained to her that I was interested in adopting Astro, and I wanted to see if the vet had seen him yet.

She said, “He is scheduled to see the vet this afternoon, but a man came in this morning, right when we opened, and filled out an adoption application for him already.”

“What?!?! I was told that he has to been seen by the vet before Maxfund accepts any adoption applications.”

“Well, he will be seen by the vet today.”

“I am a volunteer at Maxfund; can I come in and also submit an application?”

“I’m sorry but we only take one application at a time.”

“But when he was adopted the first time, before he was returned, the woman at the front desk said that he had 'three applications' for him.”

I was so upset. I couldn’t believe it. I have been such a dedicated supporter of Maxfund, and this is how I am treated. What is Maxfund’s policy?

The woman finally said that I “could check back in a few days to see if the adoption went through and if not then [I] could submit my adoption application.”

I didn’t know what to do. I just said, “Ok, thanks,” and hung up the phone.



After Gracie, our first foster doggie, jumped our front fence—the first day we had her—and ran to the neighbor’s house—who consequently instantly fell in love with her and adopted her—Maxfund almost didn’t let us foster anymore. Because we let the dog jump the fence! Brad, the same Brad, said it was the veterinarians at Maxfund who wanted to make that decision. But he “fought” for us, and we then were able to foster the old guys Buddy and Fella. After I started teaching at Colorado High School Charter we decided that Buddy and Fella really needed a home where someone can take care of them all day long. They had incontinence problems; they were both blind; they were on a lot of medications; our house just wasn’t ideal for them. Maxfund gladly found a foster parent that worked from home and was happy to take them in.

I have always supported Maxfund—being one of the only true no-kill shelters in Denver. But after the Astro stuff, I can no longer support them.

Maxfund does not truly appreciate their volunteers.

While volunteering at Best Friends Animal Sanctuary, I am thanked everyday. I only go once a year to Kanab, but the people remember my mom and me. When I call Maxfund I am a stranger. When I volunteer at Maxfund no one remembers my name, or ever takes the time to say thank you. When I try to adopt a dog from Maxfund, I am pushed aside with wavering “policy.”

Bye Maxfund. I hope one day someone will read this and make note of how volunteers are really treated at Maxfund and hopefully one day you will decide on what “policy” you really follow. 




Next on Woof. A Blog on Dogs the story of our new puppy, Checkers, rescued from Colorado Cells Dogs. Be sure to check back soon!

Saturday, July 21, 2012

Best Friends—Take 4


Best Friends Animal Society is my home away from home. It could be magical Angel Canyon embraced by red rock plateaus, the over 2,000 animals that call Best Friends home on any given day, or simply the wonderful staff and volunteers that always greet you with an openhearted smile. If I ever run away, that’s where you would find me.



My mom and I ventured to Kanab, Utah for our fourth annual trip to Best Friends this past June. We could call this the year of faux paws (pun intended). This place had become so familiar to us we forgot a bit of protocol, for instance: signing-up to volunteer before we arrived, remembering what time lunch began and ended, getting to a trailhead in the middle of the afternoon only to figure out the red sand was way too hot on our doggy’s paws while he was sprinting to shady spots, completing “outing forms” when we took a dog during the afternoon, saying to a kid walking by “sure you can pet our sleepover dog” and then watching the same kid approach another sleepover dog only to be told that this was a “Best Friends dog” and therefore she can’t pet the dog (both of the dogs were wearing green collars which means they are good with everyone, and we never truly remembered what the protocol was in this instance), and we even forgot how to get around the grounds. There were several instances of driving in circles on the dirt roads, asking ourselves “Is this the way we came in? Do we make a right here? Does any of this look familiar to you?” Instead of “Keep calm and carry on,” we would get frustrated, take a deep breath, and then “carry on” only to laugh at it later.
Sounds like home, right?


We may call Best Friends a vacation, but we go there to work. We want to help out and give back to a place that saves so many lives each year. The Best Friends website expresses that “In the late 1980s, when Best Friends was in its early days, roughly 17 million dogs and cats were being killed in shelters every year…. Since then, the number of dogs and cats being destroyed in shelters has fallen to 
approximately 5 million a year.” Our jobs typically include walking, feeding, cleaning, mopping, sweeping, cleaning water bowls and pools (yes, the dogs get plastic baby pools in their runs), taking dogs on outings and sleepovers, and socializing with the dogs—petting, brushing, playing, loving, and even in some cases—such as in the laundry room—just letting them curl up in your lap.



Each morning I woke up to take a long run through the canyon on the dirt roads, and every night we had a special guest stay with us at the cottage—a sleepover dog. Sleepovers are my favorite. I am the lucky one who gets to snuggle with the puppies in my bed all night long—the same goes in my other home.


On our first night we had Garbanzo—I liked to refer to him as Boopie. When we told the caregivers that we would be taking a sleepover that night, he was the first dog that came to mind. They also told us that every time he goes on a sleepover he is returned with tears in the volunteers’ eyes the next morning. Let’s just say we weren’t an exception to that rule. He was such a great old guy. We lifted him in the car. Gave him the traditional sponge bath. Laid with him on the couch. Walked with him as far as his old geriatric legs would go (which was only about one hundred feet). The next morning all we wanted to do was allow him to stay snuggled up in the cool cottage. The tears came because all you wish is that he had a home and a comfy bed to lay on, but he is old. He may end up calling Best Friends his forever home. His caregivers love him and Best Friends certainly wouldn’t be the worst place, but after such a long and hard life he deserves a real home—someone to call him Boopie and give him kisses on his kissy spots (the flat indented soft parts in front of his ears and on the crown of his head—I loved kissing his kissy spots).





On the second night we took Karina to be our sleepover guest for the night, and in the morning we took this cute little girl for a long hike. She was a doll, but she was also dog responsive, car responsive, bike responsive, and even horse responsive. That poor girl just wanted to bark at everything. According to her caregivers, she was even snowboard responsive. Supposedly her past owners learned that the hard way. They were snowboarding and she ran at them straight on. This resulted in a hip injury, which did slow her down at the end of our hike. I hope that because of Karina’s spunk she will quickly find a good home.





Rocky! Oh boy, Rocky was definitely my favorite dog this trip. He was just the biggest baby I have ever met. He loved giving kisses. He was also a wonderful cuddler. All night he wanted to be by my side in the bed. He would flop his big ol’ paw on my chest so that I would hold it. Yes, I spooned and held hands with this big guy all night long. I didn’t cry when I dropped off Rocky, even though I will always love and remember him. He was a goon, and I just know someone who is looking for a giant dog will quickly fall in love with him.

 



Butterball, our last sleepover puppy, came from Old Friends. While volunteering that day, my mom went into his run and Butterball gently rolled over and begged to have his belly rubbed—for our last night we had to take Butterball. He was just too precious. Old Friends houses old dogs and special needs dogs, and Butterball was an adorable old guy. He had old man lumps, and walked a bit slower, but he had the cutest puppy dog face. We could just imagine how white his fur would be after a long bath. Butterball was a bundle of love.
Our trips are filled with laughter, tears, and pure bliss. I am so lucky to share this experience with my mom. We may not remember all the ins and outs, but these are moments that I will always cherish.



Best Friends is a magical place. In my heart Best Friends is my forever home.








Butter Ball at the Rocking V








Maurice


Butterball


Rocky!







Walking Garbanzo



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